Connect with Your Potential

Posted Posted in Own Your A-Game, Personal & Leadership Development

You know how you imagine yourself being an orating genius and slam dunk a difficult situation? How about feeling deep confidence in yourself and seeing all of your future accomplishments even though right now you’re a hot mess? Do you imagine hearing people acknowledging you for a job not only well done but for how your work in particular knocked it out of the ballpark?

Now, notice what you do with these visions. Let me guess… You lay awake all night being so excited that you can’t sleep!

No? You shoo the thoughts away?

Those imaginary situations are a glimpse into what you are truly capable of. If you couldn’t be it, you most certainly wouldn’t dream it. The disconnect starts with whisking those thoughts out of your mind.

What if you entertained yourself by following those threads of thought instead? Nobody has to know about it but you. Watch how your visions grow and develop. Notice the feelings they invoke within you. Watch how they seep out into your daily life.

Connect with your potential and let yourself evolve and grow!

#howto #ownyouragame #peakperformanceinyourdailylife #fulfillonyourpotential

 

 

Diane Allen is a violinist and keynote speaker. With her violin in hand, Diane helps people to close their performance gaps, fulfill on their potential, and lead with heart.

Diane also helps caregivers of Hospice & Alzheimer’s patients to feel empowered and supported in the face of death.

Now booking 2019
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Stuck on Purpose?

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I did it! By the time I was 35 I had a husband, a son, a house and a job. I worked incredibly hard to get to this point in my life! I deserved to take a break! I TOOK PRIDE IN MY PLATEAU!

A few years later, the summer festival orchestra I performed with went bankrupt. That’s okay. I’ll just go and audition for another summer festival orchestra.

That’s when I discovered that while I had been proudly plateau-ing, the other violinists were still improving and there was an entirely new level of performance excellence. I haven’t played in a summer festival orchestra since. I was the one who put a lid on my own potential.

Are you on a plateau? What do you say to yourself to justify it? How can you take the lid off of your own potential?

#howto #ownyouragame #peakperformanceinyourdailylife #fulfillonyourpotential

 

 

Diane Allen is a violinist and keynote speaker. With her violin in hand, Diane helps people to close their performance gaps, fulfill on their potential, and lead with heart. Diane also helps caregivers of Hospice & Alzheimer’s patients to feel empowered and supported in the face of death.

Now booking 2019
Email to inquire about fees and availability here.
Keynotes & Video Clips here.

 

How We Cut Ourselves Off From Our Potential

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Performance fails are incredibly embarrassing. The thought of re-experiencing that pain causes us to self-censor. As a result, we cut ourselves off from our own potential.

Over the course of 15 years after a surgery, the scar tissue gradually limited my mobility. The distance I could walk got shorter and shorter. The speed I could walk got slower and slower.

How has fear of embarrassment and self-censorship gradually limited your potential? Like me, did you resign yourself to it? Did you make concessions and modify your path?

By the time I could hardly move, something snapped inside me and I sought out help. Within 1 year I was able to return to yoga, bike riding, long hikes and I even climbed a mountain!

Does this diagram snap something in you?

#howto #ownyouragame #peakperformanceinyourdailylife #fulfillonyourpotential

 

 

Diane Allen is a keynote speaker who speaks on peak performance and leadership. She was the lead violinist of a symphony orchestra for 15 years where it was demanded of her to always be in her A-Game.

As a speaker, with her violin in hand, she now helps people to get out of their own way, fulfill on their potential, and lead with heart.

Diane also helps family and friends of Hospice & Alzheimer’s patients to feel empowered and supported in the face of death.

Now booking 2019
Email to inquire about fees and availability here.
Keynotes & Video Clips here.

How to Get Out of Your Own Way – Own Your A-Game

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Does self-censorship put a lid on your potential?

How can you nurture your inner thoughts to fruition???

#howto #ownyouragame #peakperformanceinyourdailylife #selfleadership

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Diane Allen is a keynote speaker who speaks on peak performance and leadership. She was the lead violinist of a symphony orchestra for 15 years where it was demanded of her to always be in her A-Game.

As a speaker, with her violin in hand, she now helps people to get out of their own way, fulfill on their potential, and lead with heart.

Diane also helps family and friends of Hospice & Alzheimer’s patients to feel empowered and supported in the face of death.

Now booking 2019
Email to inquire about fees and availability here.
Keynotes & Video Clips here.

Get Unstuck & Own Your A-Game

Posted Posted in Own Your A-Game, Personal & Leadership Development

Are you in your own way? Better question: WHO ISN’T???

I help people to get out of their own way and ROCK!

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Diane Allen is a keynote speaker who speaks on peak performance and leadership. She was the lead violinist of a symphony orchestra for 15 years where it was demanded of her to always be in her A-Game.

As a speaker, with her violin in hand, she now helps people to get out of their own way, fulfill on their potential, and lead with heart.

Diane also helps family and friends of Hospice & Alzheimer’s patients to feel empowered and supported in the face of death.

Now booking 2019
Email to inquire about fees and availability here.
Keynotes & Video Clips here.

From Dis-engaged to Engaging – Own Your A-Game

Posted Posted in Own Your A-Game, Personal & Leadership Development

Your level of engagement is both audible and visible to others.

When you are fully engaged, you naturally become engaging and influential.

#howto #ownyouragame #peakperformance #leadership

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Diane Allen is a keynote speaker who speaks on peak performance and leadership. She was the lead violinist of a symphony orchestra for 15 years where it was demanded of her to always be in her A-Game.

As a speaker, with her violin in hand, she now helps people to get out of their own way, fulfill on their potential, and lead with heart.

Diane also helps family and friends of Hospice & Alzheimer’s patients to feel empowered and supported in the face of death.

Now booking 2019
Email to inquire about fees and availability here.
Keynotes & Video Clips here.

Own Your Tears – Own Your A-Game

Posted Posted in Own Your A-Game, Personal & Leadership Development

I’ve done the “vulnerable share” publicly at storytelling events. I relived, out loud, stories of personal life experiences when emotions were running raw. These storytelling events were for small audiences who specifically came for an emotional journey woven into the stories as their entertainment for the evening.

These small venues have helped me to cultivate my storytelling, emotionally process parts of my life, and help audience members to gain insights and greater understanding of their own life experiences.

Bottom line, stories heal.

I shared my stories with composure and dry eyes.

After my Mom’s passing, and feeling deeply grateful for the hospice care that she received, I wanted to give back to the hospice facility. I had the opportunity to share, storytelling style, at their monthly staff meeting. I was able to show my gratitude and it was a rare opportunity for the clinicians to hear how their care makes such a big impact.

Bottom line, stories heal.

I shared my stories with composure and dry eyes.

When the hospice facility asked me to be their Keynote Speaker for a Symposium, I could tell that this time, things would be different.

Would I be able to keep my composure and my dry eyes?

As I was writing the speech, Meghan McCain was delivering her tribute to her father John McCain at Washington National Cathedral. She teared up sporadically, occasionally sobbed, and her voice vacillated between quivering and strong.

Clamming up is freezing up.

Clamping down is when you force yourself to control your tears.

Flowing is riding the roller coaster of your emotions as you continue to speak. Flowing is an expression of the power of your vulnerability.

As Meghan McCain flowed through her tribute, I never questioned her confidence. I never questioned her credibility. Her character not only remained intact, but I felt even more connected with her and with her message.

So I gave myself permission to cry.

As I rehearsed the speech, I shed tears. It was unpredictable. I never knew when or where it would happen. I honored the process and I honored the tears.

As I delivered the speech to a packed room, far larger than any storytelling event, I knew that at any given moment, the tears would well up. And they did. Following Meghan McCain’s example, I flowed with the moment with tears in my eyes.

Afterwards, a number of audience members shared their stories with me. Many were sharing them for the first time. Because I had shared my stories, they felt like they weren’t alone on their journey anymore. Their experiences had become validated.

Bottom line, stories heal.

I shared my stories with wet eyes and that doesn’t mean that I lost my composure.

#howto #ownyouragame #cryingatwork #women #leadership

 

 

 

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diane@dianeallenspeaker.com
www.dianeallenspeaker.com

Now booking 2019
Email to inquire about fees and availability here.
Keynotes & Video Clips here.

Own Your A-Game Evaluation Tool: How Convincing Are You?

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Your ability to be convincing is one of the most important success tools. How convincing are you? Do people hear you? Do they adopt your ideas? Have you given up?

After you go through this self-evaluation, you’ll know what adjustments you need to increase your influence and be convincing.

You’re sitting at the control panel looking at 4 knobs labeled:

  1. Confidence
  2. Credibility
  3. Case Building
  4. Connection

Your job is it to figure out which zone you are in now. Then, adjust all 4 knobs into the green zone.

Confidence

Red Zone          You are paralyzed by fear.

Yellow Zone      You are confident in some areas and fake it in others.

Green Zone       You exude confidence naturally anytime, anywhere.

Credibility

Red Zone          You never speak about your qualifications.

Yellow Zone      You speak about your qualifications only when asked.

Green Zone       You always speak about your qualifications that directly relate to your idea.

Case Building

Red Zone          You assume everyone is on the same page.

Yellow Zone      You include some information to back your ideas up.

Green Zone       You outline the problem, the solution, the steps to take, and you back it up with proof.

Connection

Red Zone          You only focus on the task at hand.

Yellow Zone      You use chit chat or small talk but then focus on the task at hand.

Green Zone       You put yourself in the other person’s shoes and appeal to their emotions.

Getting to Green

Confidence

Because energy speaks louder than words, before speaking, you need to be in your most convincing energy. How do you muster that up? While a blog post can’t solve all of the world’s confidence issues, here’s one powerful tip: Get out of your own way. Most inhibitions come from being overly focusing on yourself. What bigger purpose do you serve? Do you love being the grounding force amidst chaos? Are you the silent leader who knows your work creates a solid foundation? Are you a genius in trouble shooting issues in a way that keeps the peace? Focus on the greater purpose that you serve. Those are the feelings to muster up your natural confidence.

Credibility

In order for people to trust you and therefore be convinced by you, they need to know: Who are you? If you were going to invest $500,000 and you didn’t know the financial advisor’s background and track record, would you invest? To be convincing, include the part of your background that mostly correlates with the topic at hand.

Case Building

Consider case building as the educational component of convincing others. Show your understanding of the big picture and the mini steps to solve the problem. Back up your case with proof that validates your ideas. This is how to build more trust.

Connection

The goal of connection is that people need to feel like it matters to them. If you lived in Alaska, why should you care about the python problem in Florida? It’s up to you to consider who you are trying to convince, get into their shoes and figure out why they should care.

Be Convincing

In order to be convincing, people need to feel like they have received from you all of the information they need in order for them to make a sound decision. When you show up in confidence and provide credibility, case building and connection, you’ll deliver exactly what they need!

#howto #ownyouragame #influence #leadership

As a violinist, Diane was an early adopter with YouTube. As soon as she saw herself on video, she could hear just how UN-convincing she was. She sought out training in public speaking to learn how to be convincing. Although she had a rewarding career as a concert violinist, she fell in love with public speaking and ultimately found her true voice and true purpose as a professional speaker helping people to own their A-Game and be convincing.

 

 

 

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diane@dianeallenspeaker.com
www.dianeallenspeaker.com

Now booking 2018 – 2019
Email to inquire about fees and availability here.
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Not in Your A-Game = Lack of Self Leadership

Posted Posted in Own Your A-Game, Personal & Leadership Development

You know, more than anybody else, what you are truly capable of. Yes it’s a journey to close your performance gaps but it’s one that I’m asking you to take a stand for. That’s self-leadership.

Between my violin career and my speaking career, I’ve made hundreds of videos. There’s nothing more confronting than seeing yourself on video!

I’ve put a lot of videos out there of me in my B & C-Game knowing that sometimes imperfect action is better than no action. I put those videos out there knowing that I’ve said “yes” to the A-Game journey.

Last week, I put together an A-Game video (it’s my demo). I felt very emotional as I was making it. I knew in my bones it was going to be an important video. I felt vulnerable about exposing my inner secret publicly on video: what I know I’m truly capable of.

The growing pains were worth it.

So if you do find yourself in your C, D, or F-Game, take a look at how you are leading yourself.

  • Are you leading yourself or avoiding the journey?
  • Are you taking imperfect action as part of the journey?
  • Are others starting to see what you’ve know all along: what you are truly capable of?

#howto #ownyouragame #faceyourfears #selfleadership #performanceimprovement #eventspeaker

 

 

 

 

 

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diane@dianeallenspeaker.com
www.dianeallenspeaker.com

Now booking 2018 – 2019
Email to inquire about fees and availability here.
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Don’t Poo Poo Your Pipe Dreams! Here’s why…

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Pipe dreams are a window into what you are truly capable of. They are a vision, a feeling, and an inner dialog of potential waiting to happen. Without us honoring them and taking action, that potential lies dormant. A character in a fiction book I read found it cruel to not water the houseplants. That idea has certainly made me conscientious!  You? Are you going to honor your pipe dreams by watering them or poo poo them?

I was doing a journal writing exercise earlier today and the prompt was to write about enthusiasm. With regards to enthusiasm, I discovered that it’s very easy and natural for me to feel incredibly enthusiastic about other people’s pipe dreams. It’s so easy to see the potential of their pipe dreams because you’re not in their head experiencing all of their limiting beliefs!

I asked myself if I could feel unbridled enthusiasm for my own pipe dreams in an authentic way without forcing. That’s my current #challengeaccepted. Will you join me?

 

#howto #ownyouragame #faceyourfears #leadership #keynotespeaker

 

 

 

 

 

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diane@dianeallenspeaker.com
www.dianeallenspeaker.com

Now booking 2018 – 2019
Email to inquire about fees and availability here.
Keynotes & Video Clips here.